• 2019,  Musings

    Musings: Boudoir Behavior

    My future husband is pretty damn lucky! To write this, I have to openly admit some judgment I am not too proud of. When a friend told me she was doing a boudoir shoot, I thought it was a little odd that she’d spend money and given them to no one. Well, that was my initial (re: ignorant) thought. Then I realized it was just for her. I thought it was a little non-fiscally fit, but the work-in-progress me knows this unfair judgment is unnecessary. I have no right to judge her actions, they do not affect me. I told, her of course, I supported it and I still thought…

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    Thanks, 2016 — Hellllo 2017!

    Nope, never, nada… I don’t do resolutions! Resolutions are so finite. They seem demanding and almost as if they set (every)one up for failure. Resolution – a firm decision to do or not do something (Google definition). I’m sure I’ve spoke about my opinion on NY reso’s, but that does not mean I judge anyone for making or working toward their own. They just aren’t for me. This year — 2 0 1 7 — I wanted to set some goals. I guess one may call them resolutions, but I sure as hell wouldn’t. I wanted to write some things down and hold myself accountable. I have also envisioned myself…

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    My Confidence Gap

    Confidence or lack thereof? I had every intention of doing a Five Things Friday post, but after a conversation with J yesterday (one of a few) I couldn’t shake my thoughts on this subject.  What is confidence? I’m not sure I even have this answered in my own head or thoughts. Sorry if this post seem slightly incoherent, my thoughts are all over place, and I’m trying to figure out my feelings as I write this post.  If you watched the Mindy Project this week, then you’ll understand why our original conversation started. After the episode ended, I made the statement “I am not that confident.” J seemed to think…