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    Musings: Self Love

    Is it wrong to love yourself? Via Okay, that’s a pretty loaded question. However, society sends us mixed signals. We are supposed to navigate our way through this chaotic mess of mixed messages. Society tells us to love ourselves, there’s nothing wrong with it – advertisements, articles, blogs, the media, everyone is all about self-love. However, it seems as if when you actually start to love yourself, you are called narcissistic, self absorbed, egotistical, and/or full of yourself. You get the gist. So, we are telling everyone to do one thing, but then bashing it when it manifests. There is a fine line between self-love and just being plain in…

  • 2015,  Musings

    Musings: Uncomfortable

    …in my jeans! Well, how to I put this…because I ripped a hole in them. For us ‘thick’ girls, it happened right where our thighs rub. I guess just one too much rub in the right spot, left them splitting open. Not embarrassingly enough to need to rush home to change, but uncomfortable enough that walked around for the rest of the day like I had to pee, legs pressed together! As I write this I’m slightly embarrassed, but not really. My little, chubby leg fat spewed out of the fresh rip. It was an odd feeling since my skin was exposed. I felt vulnerable – because I literally ripped…

  • 2015,  February,  Holidays,  Musings,  Valentine's Day

    Musings: A Love Letter to Myself

    Recently I was asked to write a love letter to myself. I was completely honored when Maria, of Say Hey Girl, asked me if I would be a part of her special Valentine’s Day themed post – Hey Girl, Be Your Own Valentine. I didn’t even need to think about it, I was IN. She’s a cool ass chick, also a fellow coffee and doughnut addict, which is an extra bonus! Maria // Say Hey Girl Blog // Twitter // Instagram Hi You! Your smile is what first attracts most people, but it’s your wit and ability to be genuine that keeps them around. Remember to be kind to yourself,…